Living with roommates for about 7 months

Moving out of your parents home can be very scary for the first time. Hell I really didn't want to move out at all. I had it so nice back at home. Well I have been on my own for about 7 months. And don't get me wrong there are somethings that are totally awesome about living on your own. Like not really having one yell at you if your room or bed isn't made. Or sitting on the computer and watching youtube videos all day. Or even napping in the middle of the day even though you woke up at a decent hour. I know you guys are all thinking "Wow this girl is hella lazy!" No I just like my electronics and I do like to read.

But living at home with your parents is nice because you don't have to pay bills or rent. Well unless you had parents that made you do that. Oh and that there was always food in your fridge. Gosh do I miss having a fridge full of food.

So I live with these roommates. I like these roommates as people but as roommates I don't know if I would live with them again. Some background info on these said roommates are that I knew the girl from high school and she was totally sweet girl and I really enjoyed her company. I figured since we weren't super close that I would be ok to live with her. Well she has a fiancé and I live with him too. Don't get me wrong the bf is super nice and a great guy. BUT as a roommate he is horrible. He is so lazy and doesn't pull his weight around the house. I mean his gf and I will be gone all day at school and he will be home and just be sitting on the computer all day. Not that I'm saying that i don't do this but i make sure that I get my chores done first before I do. His gf has to make him list to get him to do something. I just don't understand how hard it is to look and see that the dishwasher needs to be unloaded or that the trash is full and needs to be taken out. Like come on!!!! He is leaving for the military in a couple of months and I cannot wait to live without him. This apartment is going to be so clean and mess free. Im going to love it.

What is going on with me?

Ok so I know that a lot of this blog is just some stupid rambling from a girl that basically only does this when she is way bored out of her freakin mind!! Well, before I decided to move and go to college I was talking to this guy. And this guy wasn't just any ordinary guy, but in fact was my ex-boyfriend's best friend in the whole world. When I was with my ex I always thought his friend was cute and super nice. This was back in high school that I had this boyfriend, well I broke up with him after graduation because he was just an asshole at that point. But, his friend was always nice to me and I would always see him at his work which is Starbucks.

So I just one day commented on a picture that he had posted on social media and then we started talking. He said " This may sound like I am breaking bro code, but would you like to meet up or something?" I replied " Yes, that is totally breaking bro code, but I said I haven't been with my ex for about 4 years so I don't really see any harm."

It wasn't a formal date because we didn't really want it to be. So we just met for coffee and it was really nice. It was so nice to talk to him it just came really easily and he was funny and I really enjoyed myself. After that, we decided to go on an actual date and it was super nice and I really enjoyed myself. So, we continued to see each other for a while but we never made anything official because I just didn't know at the time. Then I found out that I had gotten into the college that I wanted to get into. Then all these feelings came up like when I move will I want to be in a relationship with a guy that is far away? Could I do long distance? My mind was just going in circles. I felt really bad because I feel like this made me not pay attention to him and how he was a guy and if he was right for me and stuff.

I was still seeing the guy and was really considering that he was going to be my new boyfriend. But as I was on social media I ask around to see if anyone needed a new roommate for up in the town where my college is located. I didn't think that I was going to get a reply so fast. Well, a week went by and I found out that I would be moving in a lot sooner then originally planned. So I decided to end things with the guy. And I didn't just end things with him because of moving but also he was still good friends with my ex and he would tell him things that we would do and that didn't settle right with me. I'm sorry but I don't really want my ex to know who've I have kissed. Well he was really upset with me and said that we could still be friends but I hadn't heard from him in a long time.

2 months have go by now and he texted me out of nowhere asking how I was doing. I said I was fine and stuff but then we started talking again. I asked why he texted me again and he said that he wanted to know how I was doing and that he still had feelings for me. Well now its been a couple of days and we have continued to talk but nothing serious is coming out of the conversation but its making me think that I try and give him another chance. I just don't know if that is really what I want or if I want to meet a guy from college. I just don't know!! I just don't want to be a bad person.

Keepin on Keepin on

So I just moved out of my house with my parents. Now I am living with good roommates. I do really like living with them and all that. But today unfortunately Im going to really express some feelings that I have had.

I had transferred jobs from where I was living to where I am living now. And in all the hard work that I have put into this job all i am working is weekend. This really sucks for me social life as a 21 year old. But with that aside I got to spend the whole week with one of  my two roommates. Now like I said I really like them. Unfortunately, the guy who i am living with doesn't have a job and kinda just sits at home doing nothing but playing on the computer and stuff like that. Now, his girlfriend who is the other roommate is a really hard worker and goes to school. So all she asks of him is to do stuff around the house and put out applications for jobs. Well, basically i had to babysit him this week. That was kinda tough for me but i did it anyways.

Just some of the things that i am going to have to get used too.

Moving Out

New and exciting things are happening for me. To tell the truth I never thought the day would come where I had to move out of my parents home. Most people are probably like "really never" thought you would move out. Well of course not, I knew that one day I would move out and begin my life away from my parents. It just came a lot faster than I thought. Its not a bad thing that I moved out, actually i have so far really enjoyed being on my own. I really like my roommates and don't have to deal with nagging parents. But, in all truth I do kind of miss my parents. I mean they were my best friends and I enjoyed being with them. I'm just glad that I feel like I always have a home.

Continued

So after the crazy lady had left I thought that all my problems were going to go away. Nope! I was so defiantly wrong about that factor. Then the drama started to begin with my boss. Yes, my boss was a young and beautiful man and the shitty part was that he knew he was good looking and used it to his advantage. He was never an asshole to me because I think I was one of his favorites and also I kept to myself and just worked. Well anyways there had been some things that went down where it proved that he was a major ass. He would have screaming matches with fellow employees and finally some of them even called HR and told on him. One person even quit and wrote some nasty things about my boss. But it was all true what he had written. As time went on he was proving to be a very nasty person and no one wanted to be around him anymore.

Adding to the Drama

So I know that my last post wasn't very informative about why my work should have a reality tv show. Well it was getting late and had written too much for me to go on with. Now to continue my story. So there was this one person that I worked with who was a complete and total disaster. She was like some crazy white trash lady who happen to know me and my sister because her daughter had go to school with us. Well from then on she thought that me and her shared things in common with but she didn't at all. Well then as months had gone by she proved that she was crazy every time i worked with her. She had this crazy husband drama. So I guess that her husband had been talking to underage girls on a social media site and had caught him on his phone. Well I guess she contacted the "young girls" to tell them that his is old and has a family. Well it turns out that they weren't young girls but of legal age but just younger than what she was. Well she was still going crazy over it all. Even customers at work were starting to stare and complain about her "craziness". But after almost 6 months of working there she left with her family and moved about 3 hours away. THANK GOODNESS!!

My work should have a tv show

I know that everyone complains that their work has so much drama and that its ridiculous. Well I was never one to believe that any of it was true. Well at the time I was young and naive. So I started my job at a local store that is kind of like a feed store.  I was so excited to be starting this job because I just had gotten out of high school and been in the FFA (future farmers of America) and I thought that it fit right into my personality. As I started to meet all my new coworkers and my new manager my body was riveting with excitement. It also didn't hurt too bad that my boss was a total knock out. But, the downfall to it is that he knew he was good looking thus, he was an asshole. So I started working at this store before it even opened so the first month was spent putting up shelves and merchandise. This is where I got to know my coworkers. Some of them would be so nice that I trusted them with a lot, but then others would be so weird and crazy that I couldn't stand being around them. And so my story begins next time!!